Well, when the marriage has crept toward the day, or even the twilight, why don't you dig up the atmosphere of the bridal chamber?
Within sex, no matter how long your marriage is, an arousal enhancer is necessary. It can be obtained from foods, beverages, herbs, or supplements often known as an aphrodisiac. However, to attract a crashing passion, not only aphrodisiac is skilled.
Atmosphere, the sensation of fragrances, including light and the color, turns out to be utilized for the same purpose. Everything is safe, free of adverse side effects.
In having sex, generally, men view from the side of physical approach more. Not surprisingly, just a little visual stimuli, such as seeing a low cleavage, man's sexual desire is relatively easier to rage. In contrast, women are more involved the feelings, psychological factors, intellectual background, and a supportive environment situation.
In short, women are slower than men, but that doesn't mean, men and women can't enjoy sex together. To be able to enjoy lovemaking together until the climax, libido in women seems to be more decisive. That is, libido in women needs to be driven higher, or at least, equal to the husband.
However, in reality, often, libido in women is much lower than in men. Not infrequently, husband whose sexual desire is raging is unfulfilled due to the low of wife's libido. To libido in women can be just as strong, supportive environment situation is necessary.
One way is through aromatherapy. In aromatherapy, it's known a number of essentially aphrodisiac oils of flowers or plants that arouse sexual desire.
Various kinds of fragrances which can increase this arousal, actually, have been around since the first ancestors. One example, yes, is bridal chamber. The sensation of the atmosphere of the bridal chamber could be exhumed for aphrodisiac variations for couples who've been married a long time. Who knows, romance flames of the wedding night rise again.
Actually, if you don't wanna be bothered, you can just reserve a special hotel room for honeymooners. However, it couldn't hurt to prepare yourself well. The bedroom is decorated into a bridal bed. There's a sprinkling of rose and jasmine flowers.
Tuberose flowers are also placed in the container on the table or the corners of the room to create a relaxing atmosphere. Incense or scented candles are smoldered to create a feeling of comfort and peace of mind. Find smokeless candle. Usually, people refer as a tea candle.
It's complicated, but so, you know how difficult it used to be for wedding organizer to prepare for your bridal bed.
Alternatively, use aromatherapy. The preparation is by using oils of sandalwood, ylang ylang, patchouli, rose, jasmine, and orange. Its use can be applied to specific body parts, dropped on tissue paper, smeared, burned, or drunk.
The used oil can be sole or gathered. So, it's not to be all there. Choose a fragrance that suits your taste. These oils can be purchased at the essence store or a modern spa. For aromatherapy effect works maximally, it's recommended not to use it when the body is dirty or tired.
Apply the oil on the body after a bath so it'd seep well. Before going to sleep, when the body is clean, apply essential oils to add freshness. In essence, anyone would like to feel the body fresh and fragrant. When the body is fragrant and fresh, plus a comfortable and supporting room atmosphere, it seems that having sex will feel easier.
If this can be done by yourself for happiness, there's no harm in trying.
How can the scent of essential oils arouse sexual desire? The typical aroma is received and interpreted by nerve nodes on the sense of smell in different levels and conditions. Impression of the smell is processed in the olfactory center, sorted out the type, and then sent to specific places.
The scent stimuli are sent to the hormone control center in the hypothalamus in the brain. Through a complex mechanism that goes as fast as a lightning, the stimulus will join with a number of other stimuli from the centers of emotions, psychics, interpretation, and so on coming together.
Combination of all will produce a new stimulus in the form of orders that certain hormones are more than normal conditions. Increase of the amount or levels of certain hormones in the body will affect the intensity of passion, libido, and mood.
Of course, the process is related to the types of fragrances that smell, taste, mood, and psychological situation of a person at that time.
Hmm, it's an interesting idea at the weekend that'll be hot!
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